@Kurk: Yeah, I'm usually the biggest skeptic when he fails to flat-out answer a question, but he actually does seem to confirm it here. Of course, then the "nurses" becomes confusing. I think my money is on a hand-maiden, personally, but either works. The questioner had a point; there might not be any specific indication it is them, but when there are few NPCs to begin with and only a couple are female, it's not actually difficult to pick out of a hat. I don't recall the WoB confirming the Terriswoman in Warbreaker was Aslyndin, though.